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Fool Proof

How Fear of Playing the Sucker Shapes Our Selves and the Social Order—and What We Can Do About It

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The fear of playing the fool is a universal psychological phenomenon and an underappreciated driver of human behavior; in the spirit of Malcolm Gladwell's Blink, Dan Ariely's Predictably Irrational, and Susan Cain's Quiet, Fool Proof tracks the implications of the sucker construct from personal choices to cultural conflict, ultimately charting an unexpected and empowering path forward.

In the American moral vernacular, we have a whole thesaurus for victims of exploitation. They are suckers (born every minute), fools (not suffered gladly), dupes, marks, chumps, pawns, and losers. Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me. Cultural stories about suckers abound too: the Trojan Horse, the Boy Who Cried Wolf, the Emperor's New Clothes, even Hansel and Gretel. If you believe that, I have a bridge to sell you. Don't go out with him; he only wants one thing. The fear of playing the fool is not just a descriptive fact; it is a prescriptive theme: Don't let that be you.

Most of us are constantly navigating two sets of imperatives: how to be successful and how to be good. The fear of being suckered whispers that you can't do both, operating as a quiet caution against leaps of faith and acts of altruism. University of Pennsylvania law professor and moral psychologist Tess Wilkinson-Ryan brings evidence from studies in psychology, sociology, and economics to show how the sucker construct shapes, and distorts, human decision-making.

Fool Proof offers the first in-depth analysis of the sucker's game as implicit worldview, drawing evidence everywhere from grocery shopping to international trade deals, from road rage to #MeToo. Offering real-world puzzles and stories, Wilkinson-Ryan explores what kinds of hustles feel like scams and which ones feel like business as usual, who gets pegged as suckers and who gets lauded as saints. She takes deep dives into areas like the psychology of stereotyping, the history of ethnic slurs, and the economics of the family—and shows how the threat of being suckered is deployed to perpetuate social and economic hierarchies.

Ultimately, Fool Proof argues that the goal is not so much to spot the con as to renegotiate its meaning. The fear of being suckered can be weaponized to disrupt cooperation and trust, but it can also be defused and reframed to make space for moral agency and social progress. Facing the fear of being suckered head-on means deciding for ourselves what risks to take, what relationships to invest in, when to share, and when to protest—drafting a new template for how to live with integrity in a sucker's world.

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    • Publisher's Weekly

      January 9, 2023
      In this persuasive debut, law professor Wilkinson-Ryan contends that the “fear of being played for a fool” can result in underappreciated negative consequences. Drawing on psychology, law, and sociology, the author explores why the fear of playing the sucker is so potent, the ways it plays out societally, and how humans can benefit from judiciously deciding “which deserve attention.” According to Wilkinson-Ryan, being taken advantage of often feels devastating because it implies one has “cooperated in own social demotion.” People will go to such great lengths to avoid it that they’ll forego benefits that have no obvious downside (she cites a study in which 90% of people avoided a booth advertising “Free Money,” though there wasn’t a catch). On a social scale, the fear leads to a lessening of generosity, while in the political sphere it tends to manifest as opposition to welfare programs. But since complete risk-avoidance isn’t an option—“You are definitely going to be a fool... some of the time,” the author reassures—readers should respond by accepting the “suckered” feeling and moving on. Wilkinson-Ryan’s analysis is compassionate and intelligent, and its basis in a mix of studies and real-world examples gives the advice a sound foundation. This is a thought-provoking entry.

    • Kirkus

      January 15, 2023
      How to find a fruitful path between gullibility and paranoia. Wilkinson-Ryan, a professor of law and psychology, is well situated to investigate the social and personal implications of scams, cons, and tricks. The difference between being robbed and being conned is that with the latter, the victim has somehow contributed to their loss. Consequently, it generates feelings of humiliation and self-belittlement. Often, the psychological pain relates to the sense that the trust holding society together has been taken away, replaced by cynicism and suspicion. It is a potent construct, and the author explores it from a variety of perspectives. "The goal here," she writes, "is not so much to spot the con but to renegotiate its meaning." Along the way, she examines a range of psychological games and research experiments, including the well-known prisoner's dilemma and the interesting tragedy of the commons, where there is an intersection of self-interest, trust of others, risk, and reward. A personal example that she recounts involves a student who claimed to have suffered a death in the family and therefore needed an extension on an important assignment. Was it a plea from someone who needed support or a lie designed to manipulate her compassion? Wilkinson-Ryan unpacks this to demonstrate how the optimal decision can be made by assigning metrics to assess the potential gain and loss of each path. This helps clarify the choices as well as the crucial impact on the decision-maker. "The point is, you can feel cheated, but you don't have to," she writes. "The question is not whether threats exist but which ones deserve your attention. The prospect of playing the fool doesn't have to feel existential." It's a wise conclusion based on well-reasoned analysis. This intriguing study of the psychological dynamics of scams shows how one can live with integrity in a sucker's world.

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